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Big Little Story of Immigrants. The Mattera Family, From Ischia to S.F.
The measles was an often fatal disease for children in the 1800s but
for our three year old grandfather Francesco and his little sister Anna
it was a godsend.
One July evening in 1883, Domenico Mattera, a sea-going wine merchant
returned to Ischia after a long selling trip in the Marseilles area.
Anxious to see his wife and three small children he rushed from the
port to his home in Casamicciola (where today lies the Hotel Ibsen)
but there he found only his wife and infant son.
Raffaella,
his wife, explained that the two older children had gotten sick with
the measles and to avoid infecting the baby she had sent them off to
Ischia Ponte in her mother's care. They were better now and they could
go and pick them up the next day. Domenico couldn't wait that long.
On impulse he decides to hitch his carriage and fetch them.
By
the time he reaches Ponte it is dark; the children are sleeping and
his strong-willed mother-in-law adamently refuses to let them out into
the damp night air. Despite his protests to the contrary, he senses
defeat and tells the grandmother, "Have them ready tomorrow morning."
He returned home without the children.
Once
again in his house in Casamicciola, Domenico sits down on their bed
and starts to slip off his boot. At that very moment, all hell breaks
loose in the town of Casamicciola, in one of the most violent earthquakes
of Italian history. Mother, father and baby perish, buried under the
rubble. In Ischia Ponte, a little boy and girl sleep soundly, thanks
to a stubborn old lady.
Immediately,
a battle for the custody of the children ensues. Younger and more well-off
relatives want to adopt the two but in an impassioned plea the grandma
promises that despite her age and limited financial resources no one
could love and guide them better than she. The judge, convinced, awards
them to her.
Despite the best intentions, her health begins to decline and by the
time "Ciccio" is eight years old, he has to quit school -
despite excellent marks- and work as a ship-boy on local sailing vessels.
At
age 12, he signs on as a cook on a German ship. After spending his youthful
years at sea, Francesco or Turchillo ("little Turk"- due to
his short stature and dark complexion) as he is nicknamed by his shipmates,
decides to settle in Ischia Ponte and opens up a general store.
One
day while strolling "dietro le chiazze", he notices a pretty
young "signorina" standing on her balcony. Struck by her porcelain-like
skin and natural rosy cheeks, he immediately finds out who her father
is and asks him for her hand in marriage. Maria DiScala, like most women
of her time, accepts the men's decision.
From
the outset, their personality differences were obvious: Maria was religious,
cheerful and enhusiastic about life's little pleasures while Francesco
was an atheist (after reading the Bible all the way through, he gave
it a thumbs down), sharp-tongued and frugal. Despite this, they achieve
a certain - if sometimes stormy- balance in their everyday life together.
Maria justifies her husband's gruffness by the lack of affection suffered
during his childhood.
After several childless years, their firstborn Domenico arrived in 1910.
Unfortunately
the business wasn't going well and Francesco attributes this to his
atheism. He claims that because of this, the parish priest and local
bigots boycott his shop. Whatever the reason, the lack of commercial
success leads to the decision to emigrate to America, a country he had
seen several times during his seafaring years. They settled in Brooklyn
where Maria had her sister Felicia who had married a Buonocore.
"Ciccio"
soon found out that New York was a jungle. Irish immigrants who had
come to America a generation earlier, in the wake of the potato famine,
felt threatened on the job market by the newly arrived Italian workers.
In fact, Granpa had been beaten more than once by Irish thugs in the
course of looking for jobs.
Two
daughters, Raffaella and Mary, were born in New York but Francesco decides
to leave this place he's never really liked and try his luck in San
Francisco which he's heard is full of opportunity. Sure enough, the
Far West is more welcoming and, for the first time in his life, Francesco
becomes a fisherman. After a bit he buys a boat and when he calls for
his family to join him, he learns that little Raffaella has died of
diphtheria. His wife is already expecting another Raffaella (aka Lilliana,
my mother) and she will be the first one in the family to be born in
California, followed by Johnny, Matteo and Amelia.
Francesco
never learned to swim, even though he passed a lifetime at sea. On the
waves of the San Francisco Bay and the Pacific Ocean he would fish (often
alone) and catch the succulent crabs native to that area providing a
good living for his family.
In
San Francisco, in sharp contrast to San Pedro, there are very few families
of Ischian origin. The most numerous groups are Lucchesi and Sicilian.
In fact, little Dominic often played baseball with a kid named Joe,
son of Sicilian friends, the DiMaggio family. The Mattera kids made
friends with them all, immigrants from the North to the South of the
"boot", learning a good bit of the regional dialects while
playing on the streets of North Beach. In the afternoon, "altitalia"
lessons were offered at the school and most parents forced their children
to go.
In
summer, Francesco takes the family to Mendocino on California's north
coast where the fishing is great and the beaches and woods make it feel
like a bonafide vacation.
After
years of hard work, Francesco buys a couple of houses and further "rounds
out" his income by producing and selling his homemade red wine
during the Prohibition years. He reaches a modest economic tranquillity
and gives up fishing to start selling fishing supplies out of his basement.
His most sought-after specialty is the handmade crab pots or traps.
He teaches Dominic this craft who continues making them as a hobby for
the rest of his life.
When
our grandfather finally retired he continued tending his vegetable garden
and reading both "L'Italo-Americano" and the "San Francisco
Examiner" newspapers everyday.
Grandma
Maria passed away in 1954 and Granpa in 1971 at the age of 90.
In the most vivid memory I have of him, he is sitting at the table after
dinner with a "toscano" in one hand and a glass of his own
wine in the other. He is recounting anecdotes of a life spent on two
continents. The irony and the absurdity of the people and the situations
cause him to laugh, so hard that tears come to his eyes. I wish he were
still around to tell those stories. Today I could fully appreciate them
in a way I couldn't then.
Of
my grandmother (who died when I was four) I always remember the music,
Neapolitan music - either the classics or the "modern" hits
from the 50's. I don't know that I enjoyed them that much then but it
must have seeped into my blood because everytime I hear those notes
my soul stirs and I feel their beauty, a beauty that's a part of me.
Today
all of Maria and Francesco's children are gone: Domenico, a beloved
figure of North Beach, successful entrepreneur and tireless world traveller
- he's left us his wife, our beautiful and charismatic Aunty Carmel;
our monumental Aunty Mary, instinctive and tenacious businesswoman,
founder of one of America's largest independent pizzeria chains; Uncle
Johnny, a soft-hearted boxing champ; Lilly my mother, a talented artist,
freethinker, animal lover and defender of underdogs in general; Matteo,
WWII hero, fleeting and impenetrable, adventurous and generous; and
finally, Aunt Amelia, an organizational genius, specializing in hospitals
and homes, she was also a perfectionist of the "good life".
Never
having had children of her own she was a mother to us all.
With the demise of 2nd Mattera generation of San Francisco, our attachment
to the island of Ischia could easily have weakened. Instead the love
for Italy instilled in us by our parents, grandparents, aunts and uncles
and cousins, nurtured by their stories, their music, their disagreements,
their trips to the Old Country and the fragrance of garlic, tomatoes
and basilico is indelible.
Last
summer, 30 of us Matteras of the 3rd, 4th and 5th generations met in
Ischia for the sheer pleasure of pleasure of being all together in the
land of our ancestors. Here we celebrated a wedding, an anniversary,
two birthdays and Italy's World Cup victory.
All this, thanks to the little story of two immigrants from Ischia.
Shirley
Meals Lubrano