Dear
Readers,
Anita Perella Roddick, who parlayed a single, small
shop she opened in 1976, selling lotions and shampoos near Sussex, England
into the world-wide Body Shop Company, which she sold in 2006 to the
French Company, L’Oreal SA, one of the world’s largest cosmetic
companies for $1.3 billion, died recently, in September, at age sixty-four.
L’Oreal
acquired the Body Shops amid a growing consumer appetite for “greener”
cosmetics which use natural ingredients, avoid animal testing and aim
to limit their environmental impact. (L’Oreal also bought Sanoflore,
a producer of organic creams and essential oils made of plants in Southern
France that sells its products in pharmacies.)
Anita
Roddick also promoted fair trade to provide workers in developing nations
with a living wage, buying plant-based oils, essences and other ingredients
from communities in developing countries.
Perhaps
in a nod to her “roots”, Anita also bought products from
“developed” countries like Italy, where pockets of economic
poverty came to her attention.
Just in time for Holiday gift giving are four products from Calabria,
in Southern Italy, which are currently in stock and can be ordered by
calling 1-800-263-9746 (press #1, the website button to get a live operator
in L’Oreal US corporate offices in North Carolina) to order the
following Italian Connected Body Shop products by telephone or www.usa.the-body-shop.com:
Bergamot
Body Lotion – A cross between a lemon and a lime, this citrus
scent is used in aromatherapy to wake the senses and stimulate the mind.
Great for early rising. Contains community trade-sourced bergamot from
southern Italy (Calabria.) 8.4 oz. #12096, $15.00.
Bergamot
Body Wash - #12119 - $13.00.
Bergamot Massage Oil - #17512 - $12.50.
Bergamot Body Salt Scrub – Apply Bergamot Body Salt Scrub onto
wet skin in a circular motion. What’s left behind? Skin that is
smooth and soft. Includes European Spa Salt (fine grain) and Bergamot
Essential Oil Community Trade sourced from southern Italy. #7388, 17
oz. $24.00.
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In
the big year 2000, Anita wrote “I’m starting
the century with hope in my heart that we can leave the horrors of the
20th century behind us. It took me a total of six hours to travel door
to door from my house in London to the killing fields of Kosovo. Six
hours! An experience like that simultaneously underlines just how much
the world has changed and how much of the past it still drags with it.
It also reminds us of our responsibilities as global citizens.
The
Body Shop funds Children on the Edge, a group which is helping returning
refugees, rebuild their lives in Kosovo. There or wherever you live,
the future is something we all have to nurture together…“
The
Body Shop founder also wrote about her Italian Connections and how in
her late teens, she learned her “Mum” Gilda Perella could
have inspired a soap opera writer for an entire season:
“(My mother) Gilda Perella was born in a small village near Cassino,
Italy, and came to England as a nanny when she was fifteen. She still
lives in the terraced house in Littlehampton, Sussex, where I was born
in 1942. It is called ‘Atina’, after her village, and has
bright red window frames…
When
I was 18, something happened which made me realize that she was one
of the most courageous and romantic women I will ever know. I was a
student teacher at the time, and at college we had been researching
the influence of the heredity. We were all looking back into our families
to see how they had affected our characters.
One
day I was standing by the electric fire in the front room… My
mother was cooking in the kitchen and I called out to her: “Isn’t
it sad that you and Henry didn’t have any children?” Henry
was my stepfather, who died when I was ten.
My mother didn’t reply for a second, and then I heard her say,
“I did.”
I was amazed. I thought, My God, “I’ve some half brothers
or sisters somewhere! I said “Where are they, then?”
She
came into the room, wiping her hands on her apron, and just said: “It’s
you and Bruno. Bruno is my younger brother.
I will never forget the absolute joy of that moment when I learned that
the man who I had always thought was my stepfather – and whom
I adored – was actually my real father. Everything seemed to fall
into place, and it made perfect sense to me. It was as if an enormous
weight of guilt had been lifted off my shoulders because I had never
been able to identify with the man I thought was my father; I just didn’t
like anything about him…
Later
my mother told me the whole amazing story. Her first marriage was arranged
within the family. It was understood that when she got to England, she
would marry Donny Perella, whose family was also from Atina. That was
the way things were done in Italian families in those days, but a few
months before the marriage, my mother fell hopelessly in love with Donny’s
cousin, Henry, and Henry fell hopelessly in love with her. There was
absolutely nothing they could do about it, so Henry went off to America,
broken-hearted, and my mother married Donny…
My
early childhood memories are intertwined with the small Italian community
in Littlehampton, the Perellas and the Perillis, most of whom I was
related to, and my parents’ café, the Clifton. I have no
idea how or why a handful of Italian families came to settle in a small
English seaside town. They just did, and they owned most of the cafes.
The
work ethic, the idea of service, was second nature to us – perhaps
because we were immigrants. It was just what we did. Those few cafes
in the town which were owned by local people opened at nine and closed
at five on the dot; those owned by Italians were open all hours.
Donny
and Gilda’s first child died of meningitis, but by the outbreak
of the Second World War, she had two small daughters, Lydia and Velia.
Throughout this time, she had never forgotten Henry and corresponded
with him frequently. During the war, he suddenly turned up in Littlehampton,
where Donny had bought a café, and they began a passionate affair
in secret. My mother said she begged him to give her children, and she
was soon pregnant with me. Two years later Bruno was born.
When
I was five, my mother took all of us children on a trip by train back
to her village in Italy. We were all very surprised to find when we
arrived that Uncle Henry was there. I had no idea of the significance
of this, but he made a big impression on all of us. I remember him playing
the mandolin in the moonlight, while pigs snuffled around in the courtyard
outside.
Donny
knew nothing of the affair, and my mother was able to pass off both
children as his. How a naïve Italian woman could manage such duplicity
- I will never know. Henry desperately wanted to marry my mother, but
at first, she could not face up to the prospect of a divorce. So he
went back to America, swearing he would never return unless she divorced
Donny.
Back
in Littlehampton, the divorce proceedings must have started, but I was
not really aware of what was going on except that grown-ups would stop
talking the minute I walked into the room. To big Italian Catholic families
like the Perellas, divorce was a mortal sin, but my mother eventually
plucked up enough courage, helped by the fact that Donny had never bothered
to conceal that he had a mistress.
It
was an almighty scandal: she had to argue with the priest and the family
and the grandparents, but she did it – all for love. In 1950 Henry
returned from America and married my mother, but he had contracted tuberculosis
and was already a sick man. They only had eighteen months together before
he died of a heart attack. He was only thirty-nine. Her epic romance
turned into an almost unbearable tragedy.
During
my final year at Newton College, my mother sold the Clifton Café,
and opened her own night club in the center of Littlehampton. She called
it the El Cubana, if you please. Why she could not have had an Italian
night club, I don’t know. But it had to be Spanish, with castanets
and straw hats hanging all over the place.
The
El Cubana was the best thing to happen to Littlehampton and to my mother.
It has a jukebox and a little dance floor, but most of all, it had my
mother, absolutely queening it, sitting behind the bar in a cocktail
dress holding court and cracking jokes in her thick Italian accent.
The members adored her because she was so full of life and fun. She
had never really gotten a grasp of the English language, and her malapropisms
are legendary in the family.
One
day I was window shopping with her and she saw a silver lurex dress
she thought would be just right to wear in the El Cubana. She marched
in and said: “I wanna try on the dress you got in the window.
See there! The durex one.” About this time she also bought herself
a little car, but she was a terrible driver. She would get quite upset
if I suggested she should perhaps indicate before she was going to turn.
“What for I need to indicate?” she would say. “I know
where I’m going.”